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Do you think I'm crazy for not wanting my boyfriend to go to a strip bar? Is that being to old fashioned?
 

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Finally! A thread for girls!

I was the same way with my ex. But that's when I was a lot younger and jealous :eek: Now I enjoy goin to strip clubs myself. For me, it was something I had to grow out of. So it just depends on you. I say, let em go! It's just a novelty.
 

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No. Dirty things go on in there. Dirty things. You don't want some skank giving your man an STD. Most strip clubs are just whore houses in diguise.
 

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Hmm. . well if the strip clubs are like the ones Timebomb is describing maybe it's not such a good idea. I've never seen anything like that over here though. There's always lots of control in the LA clubs. No lap dances, covered nipples, and no touching. I don't even know why the men bother on going after all the new laws.
 
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See that is more on how I view it TimeBomb. It's not that Im jealous about him seeing another women..He's a man..he's going to think another one has a nice body. Just like if i see a man I think looks good im going to think it because its human nature. It just makes me feel less of a woman if he has to go to a strip club and see women on numerous man just to get money, you know? It's like damn...I must not be doing something right.
 
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Why don't you go with him? Chances are that would turn him on. Don't worry when most guys go to strip clubs its not like they're out looking for love, just some fun.
 
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See that is more on how I view it TimeBomb. It's not that Im jealous about him seeing another women..He's a man..he's going to think another one has a nice body. Just like if i see a man I think looks good im going to think it because its human nature. It just makes me feel less of a woman if he has to go to a strip club and see women on numerous man just to get money, you know? It's like damn...I must not be doing something right.
Dont think that! I think that you should go with him also. If things havent been going that great then it might spice things up. Go with him and watch the girls and then take him home and give him a REAL lap dance! Hot hot hot! :D
 

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Why don't you go with him?
I agree. If he really wants to go, he may just do it behind your back. So go with him.
Don't worry when most guys go to strip clubs its not like they're out looking for love, just some fun.
In Texas, they're looking for a "BJ". My gf, who I love dearly, used to dance. She didn't make alot of $$ doing it, which is how I know she wasn't a "dirty dancer". But she would always complain that all men would ask for is to have their "knob polished". Kinda pathetic if you ask me. I got her a job where I work, and I'm glad I was able to get her out of that shithole industry.
 
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Deltron said:
Why don't you go with him? Chances are that would turn him on. Don't worry when most guys go to strip clubs its not like they're out looking for love, just some fun.

fun as in just watching these girls? I would be ok if he wanted to go in with his buddies and watch them, but If I found out he was paying for lap dances and shit I think I would be a little pissed off. I could see if he went once in awhile, but I would question the type of guy he was if that was like his new hang out. :cool:
 
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In Texas, they're looking for a "BJ". My gf, who I love dearly, used to dance. She didn't make alot of $$ doing it, which is how I know she wasn't a "dirty dancer". But she would always complain that all men would ask for is to have their "knob polished". Kinda pathetic if you ask me. I got her a job where I work, and I'm glad I was able to get her out of that shithole industry.
Wow, that's nasty. Here in AZ I don't know if its like that or not. I haven't heard any stories about it. The again I've only been to the strip club a couple of times.

Well, I guess the best thing to do is go with him. Timebomb is right, if he wants to go he'll do it behind your back.
 
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Yeah..you have a point. Thanks!
 

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If he's a typical guy, he'll just go behind her back anyway. It's a macho thing and guys like to go together. I mean, why would they want their chick around - all the time?! I say after she goes with him he'll think it's harmless and he'll go out with just the guys more and more.
 

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kind of off topic, but not really. But on my way to school this morning I was listening to the news on the radio and they were saying they went undercover at some of the escorts services here and *gasp* these girls were having sex with these men. Ummmmm No Shit? :cool:
 

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why dont you just be a lil whore urself & his surprise his ass with a strip show & buy lotsa toys & those special dice that tell you what to do to what body part.
not that I know anything about this. ;)
 
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If he's a typical guy, he'll just go behind her back anyway. It's a macho thing and guys like to go together. I mean, why would they want their chick around - all the time?! I say after she goes with him he'll think it's harmless and he'll go out with just the guys more and more.
It all depends on the person and what kind of relationship they have.
 

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why dont you just be a lil whore urself & his surprise his ass with a strip show & buy lotsa toys & those special dice that tell you what to do to what body part.
not that I know anything about this. ;)
There ya go. Get one of those portable stripper poles, and buy that how to strip video from Carman Electra. Hey you might even earn a few extra bucks. :D
 

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1) Let him do what he wants. Quit being nosy, as long as hes not sticking it in one who cares?

2) Listen to mami, those dice rock. :D
 
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