Welcome to EMUSE!

EmuseForum is your #1 forum for General Discussions, The weird & wonderful, Politics, Sexy Babes, Porn and more!

  1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

What the Fuck is love?

Discussion in 'Everything/Nothing' started by Bowling-Pete, Apr 30, 2004.

Tags:
  1. Bowling-Pete

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    Love is a word that doesn't really stand for any one thing. Words such as cat, run, sticky... they all have the same definitions for one person as they do for another (or at least similar).

    Love, I feel, is the only word that is defined by each person. My idea of love will be different than yours. On top of that. As we go on in life, our own definitions of the word will change.

    This ambiguity is why love is so hard to define.
     
  2. Vixta31

    Vixta31 Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    Ever thought what was love? i mean really? for the people who don't kno about it yet, you have just need to go and find out for urselves and for the people who do then good for you. all i'm trying to say is that do people really get married because they love each other or is it because they need each other. i personally think that it's because of need but who kno's? i'm not in love. just had a couple of bfs and that's all. nothing more to that. and no love involved. don't think ever gonna be in love. does love work that well? i mean think on it. when you usually like someone do you actually get them? no not really. most of the time not rite? well everything keep peace around here and love the people that you love all the same. dreams are forever and thoughts are just momentarily
     
  3. dunno34

    dunno34 Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    argh these love topics keep poping up (no offense to the person who made this) it's getting annoying :rolleyes:
     
  4. marshalldylan10

    marshalldylan10 Resident Timothy Leary

    Joined:
    Jan 26, 2004
    Messages:
    2,633
    Ratings:
    +310 /0 /-0
    If you haven't experienced love yet, you are probably still a teen, such as I, I thought I have been in love, but unfortunately, it was a mirage. If you are teen, you can feel you never will feel love, or that you almost did but was suddenly taken away. Of course, relationships involving love won't work out the best when still young, but there is still a whole other life out there.
     
  5. tourettes

    tourettes Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    i thought it was love...don't make me talk about my ex-wife.
     
  6. marshalldylan10

    marshalldylan10 Resident Timothy Leary

    Joined:
    Jan 26, 2004
    Messages:
    2,633
    Ratings:
    +310 /0 /-0
    Well, by mentioning you having a ex-wife, we must know now! Tell us! ooh tell us please. Gather around kids, tourettes has a story.
     
  7. KinkyKlown

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    Love is a pair of binoculars and a black jogging suit.
     
  8. DeeDee

    DeeDee Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    Tourettes- you have brought up your ex a few times.. she must have done you REAL bad. I have an ex husband. I am not bitter because i have the knowledge in my heart that he will never amount to anything in life and will never have a productive relationship.. that is justice enough.


    Crash course on relationships.. yay!

    When you first start dating someone it rules because it is all fresh and new.Than you date someone for 4 years and they leave their dirty shoes on your clean carpet you just vaccumed and the bills aren't getting paid and his mom is all up in your relationship telling him what to do and his EX is all up on his nutz and you hate your job but you can't quit because you have "obligations" to fulfill and you want to have a kid but you know you can't afford it and your sex drive is next to nothing because all you do is work and all you hear from him is, you never do this for me anymore, you never do that for me anymore, and you come home and you asked him to take out the trash but he was too busy talking to his friends and playing video games, and you really want to just go to sleep but you realize that your husband is humping on the side of your waist like a damn dog and isn't it better to give in, and that was ok but your thinking about that guy you dated right before you met your husband and how great he was... until he cheated on you, and your husband is snoring so loud you can't sleep, so you elbow him and tell him to roll over and he takes half the damn blankets with him so you ass is hanging out in the air, so you get up to go to the bathroom and you notice that you have suddenly gained 20 pounds.. how that happen.. and your husband is up and asking you what is wrong, but you know if you tell him you will get in a fight but you tell him anyway because your a woman and you HAVE to tell him.. and you get in a fight... and than he tells you that you have some bill that unexpectedly came up and you WOULD have the money for it, but you guys spent it on a new pair of shoes for you both and now you are going to have to ask your parents for money and your embarrassed that you have to ask him, he is asleep again, and snoring, and you want to go out with your friends for a girls night out but your husband has made plans to go to some damn stupid activity that you hate, but you have to because you want him to be happy and you go with him and some fat nasty beast is hitting on him in front of you and you get in an arguement because he accuses you of being paranoid because OF COURSE he does not know that she is hitting on him, and you go home and do not talk to him for awhile because you are pissed off at him because he did not beleive you when you said he was being macked on and than you decide that you want to watch some TV and he comes out of the bedroom an hour later and asks, why are you not in bed... and you tell him you are not tired and he saids he can not sleep without you there and so you go to bed with him.. and than he starts snoring again.. and you put the pillow over your head and close your eyes....
    and that is life.. and that is love.
     
  9. Big D

    Big D Yeah...I love it

    Joined:
    Apr 9, 2004
    Messages:
    761
    Ratings:
    +129 /0 /-0
    Well, I'm getting married this June...so love is a lot of different things to me, and its always on my mind.

    Love is a friendship, my fiance' is my best friend. Love is finding happiness with another person. It is genuinely caring for them. It is offering your protection to keep them safe, and allowing them to do the same for you. Love is about sacrifice, doing things you wouldn't normally do to help them, or make them happy. It's is doing the laundry, or the dishes when its not your turn. Its thinking about someone all day, and hardly being able to wait to see them again. Love is honest. Being trustworthy, and allowing yourself to trust another is so important, yet so difficult if you've been hurt. Love is vulnerable, being able to confide in someone about anything in the world in safety is something that everyone needs. Love is intimate. Its a long hug, a gentle kiss, and a sexual expression to be shared with one special person. Love is hard work. No matter how much you love a person, and how great they are, you can't always see eye to eye and work things out no matter how badly you want to. Love requires constant upkeep, and is being able to work through the good times and the bad. Love can say its sorry when its wrong, but isn't forced to do so. Love exists, and I feel it everyday. It can make you feel like the luckiest person in the whole world...
     
  10. Oli

    Oli Member

    Joined:
    Mar 28, 2004
    Messages:
    895
    Ratings:
    +222 /0 /-0
    Love is something that was invented by bank mangers to make you spend all of your money.
     
  11. Riley

    Riley The Freakin Rican
    Premium

    Joined:
    Feb 3, 2004
    Messages:
    8,268
    Ratings:
    +608 /0 /-0
    I think with the divorce rate as high as it is, people are confused as to what "Love" really is. They confuse it with an emotion that gives you butterflies in the pit of your stomach. Real love goes way past that. Big D did well on explaining it. People just give up to damn easy anymore, so many don't even care to see it through the bad times. Every realtionship will go stale if both people do not work at keeping it alive.
     
  12. chriscolton.com

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    What is love? Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me no more.

    (love is stupid! <goes and cries in a corner all alone>)
     
  13. MaKaVeLi

    MaKaVeLi Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    well i'v never been in love but my friend has. Its exactly what Big D said so i guess i dont have to add anything............
     
  14. M&M's

    M&M's Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    for all the teens out there...i used to think the same way as you. "i'll never fall in love, and i don't want to." but then you meet that one guy, who makes you smile every time he walks through your door. and who makes you laugh at his stupid jokes! love is everything that big d said. but make no mistake, love can really hurt. :(
     
  15. Skizla

    Skizla Active Member

    Joined:
    Feb 29, 2004
    Messages:
    2,588
    Ratings:
    +252 /0 /-0
    perfect explanation :rolleyes: ;) :D
     
  16. Sucrose

    Sucrose Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    Hmm...another love post. I have claimed to be in love twice in my 16 years...the first time I was sorely mistaken(I wasnt even in a fricken relationship!). And the second time was with my now ex-girlfriend. She broke up with me a month ago. I loved her with everything, during class all I thought about was her, I could hardly wait to see her again. Everytime I saw her my goal was to make her as happy as I could, and I apparently did a good job at that according to her. God she was beautiful, she was so beautiful beauty itself was envious of her. And then she dropped me like a sack o' potatoes...Ladies and gentlemen, make no mistake, love hurts...bad sometimes. I'd almost rather lose a finger than go through that again. But inevitably I'll do it again, I'll fall in love with some girl similar, and do the same things, and get dropped again, such a vicious cycle....
     
  17. morrowasted

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    "Love is only a word that implies a connection"-- Matrix Revolutions
     
  18. Madness

    Madness Once in a while.

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2004
    Messages:
    3,035
    Ratings:
    +500 /0 /-0
    Only the human mind can come up with an insipid thing such as love. It's just a prettied up word with a lot of pink and hearts but it doesn't exist in this cold, cruel, heartless beast we call the world. People are dicks, you know? It just fades away like a bruise and your left alone once again.
     
  19. Sucrose

    Sucrose Guest

    Ratings:
    +0 /0 /-0
    Creepy! Madness that was your 666th post...you're Satan...I agree with what you said though, love sucks, but I believe it exists.
     
  20. Madness

    Madness Once in a while.

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2004
    Messages:
    3,035
    Ratings:
    +500 /0 /-0
    Holy crap, You were right. I didn't even notice that. Everyone reaches that thing at least once. Anyway now it's changed. But that's kept as posterier.
     

Share This Page